That's an odd question, I know. I mean, who ever thinks of what they might miss at church Sunday morning before deciding if they should go to church or not? It seems ridiculous.
But do we do that?
I was reading last week about how there are studies (yes, multiple) about when selling to people of trying to sway people to be a part of whatever you are offering, they are more likely to buy in if you instill some fear of them missing out than what they may get out of the situation. So if I was selling a book (which I am), I can tell people how good the book is and what they will get from it but if I want to sell more copies a more effective tactic is to say, "only a few copies left".
It's a product of our Instagram society. Fear of mission out is one of the greatest fears of teenagers and younger people, as they get older I predict it takes the number one spot over fear of public speaking (this is also the YouTube generation). So when it comes to making a decision, people will commonly skip over "is this good for me" and think "will I miss something by not being there."
I wonder how this affects our worship. When we make plans for the week do we factor in if church is something that is healthy and necessary for our soul? Or do we think about what we will miss (or not miss) if we don't go? Hopefully each time we worship together we have a rich spiritual experience together and we see Jesus. After all, who'd want to miss that?
The believers devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching, to the community, to their shared meals, and to their prayers. ~ Acts 2:42 (CEB), from when the first church was forming.
T
Monday, September 11, 2017
Monday, September 04, 2017
Rest
Today's Labor Day. Instead of a long post, here's my one question:
When was the last time you rested (I mean really rested)?
Think about it...
T
When was the last time you rested (I mean really rested)?
Think about it...
T
Monday, August 28, 2017
What Rules Have You Broken
Last night we talked at FIRE & WATER about the rules to follow Jesus, the Pharisees (they loved rules) and what true worship really is. Here's the one thing I found out that I really didn't like:
They still get in trouble for breaking "rules".
I get it, no one is perfect and there are things we should and should not be doing that will help us know God better. But when and where you wear a hat probably isn't one of them.
If you are a part of a church or some group that worship, please, don't put your made up rules on visitors. If you are more worried about what a person wears to church then the fact they took the risk to visit for the first time you're missing the mark.
To those that aren't a part of a church, don't let one church's "rules" or even what you've heard about the "rules" stop you from coming. There are a ton of people that love Jesus and just want to get to know you. Try to find them, please.
As someone who has broken the rules many times and still occasionally gets in trouble for it, let's make it less about us and more about Jesus. Please.
T
They still get in trouble for breaking "rules".
I get it, no one is perfect and there are things we should and should not be doing that will help us know God better. But when and where you wear a hat probably isn't one of them.
If you are a part of a church or some group that worship, please, don't put your made up rules on visitors. If you are more worried about what a person wears to church then the fact they took the risk to visit for the first time you're missing the mark.
To those that aren't a part of a church, don't let one church's "rules" or even what you've heard about the "rules" stop you from coming. There are a ton of people that love Jesus and just want to get to know you. Try to find them, please.
As someone who has broken the rules many times and still occasionally gets in trouble for it, let's make it less about us and more about Jesus. Please.
T
Monday, August 21, 2017
Today the Moon Blocks the Sun
Have you ever thought about how crazy that is? The moon can block the sun and make the sky dark. The moon can make the sun so dark that you can stare directly at the sun and burn your retinas. I'm already gearing up to hide our daughter in the basement so I don't have to explain why it's already night time.
But how can this be since the moon is so much smaller than the sun? If the sun were hollow about 64.3 million moons can fit in the sun, that's how tiny the moon is compared to the sun. So how come the moon can completely block out something so much larger than it?
Proximity.
Because the moon is almost 400 times closer to us than the sun it can block it out. Because it is so much closer something incredibly bigger disappears.
I wonder how often this is true of Jesus in our lives. He is infinitely bigger than any problem we could have, but if we hold on to those problems closer and push Jesus further away doesn't it seem like that problem is bigger than Jesus?
Don't let the little things block you from seeing Jesus. The closer you hold them the less Light that gets through...
T
But how can this be since the moon is so much smaller than the sun? If the sun were hollow about 64.3 million moons can fit in the sun, that's how tiny the moon is compared to the sun. So how come the moon can completely block out something so much larger than it?
Proximity.
Because the moon is almost 400 times closer to us than the sun it can block it out. Because it is so much closer something incredibly bigger disappears.
I wonder how often this is true of Jesus in our lives. He is infinitely bigger than any problem we could have, but if we hold on to those problems closer and push Jesus further away doesn't it seem like that problem is bigger than Jesus?
Don't let the little things block you from seeing Jesus. The closer you hold them the less Light that gets through...
T
Monday, August 07, 2017
Listening to the Lawnmower
I have an old lawnmower. I don't know how old, we bought it second hand. I've had to do a few Macgyver-ish repairs to it over the years. The push assist doesn't work anymore. It's covered in duct tape and zip ties. But it mows the lawn.
One interesting thing about it is the sound it makes when the grass bag is full. There's a window in the bag so I should be able to see the grass clippings, but it is so old and dirty I have tried to clean it and it lasts about four minutes. So I have another way to tell when the bag is full: the sound. When grass starts feeding back into the mower there is a distinct clunking sound, different from the other clunking sounds of being an old mower. I know when I hear that sound it's time to stop and empty the grass clippings.
As I was mowing the other day I started to think how this in many ways is like hearing God. If I could choose some other way to tell when the bag was full, I'd do it. In a heartbeat. But I can't. I had to learn to let go of how I wanted things to work and learn to listen to the actual signs in the midst of all the other noise.
Sound like God a little?
Too often we have ideas of how we want God to speak or communicate to us. The problem is, it's not up to us. He does it His way. And until we recognize that we will never hear Him. We will miss His voice in the midst of all the other noise.
So what does God sound like? And will you start listening for Him?
My sheep recognize my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. ~ John 10:27 (TLB)
T
One interesting thing about it is the sound it makes when the grass bag is full. There's a window in the bag so I should be able to see the grass clippings, but it is so old and dirty I have tried to clean it and it lasts about four minutes. So I have another way to tell when the bag is full: the sound. When grass starts feeding back into the mower there is a distinct clunking sound, different from the other clunking sounds of being an old mower. I know when I hear that sound it's time to stop and empty the grass clippings.
As I was mowing the other day I started to think how this in many ways is like hearing God. If I could choose some other way to tell when the bag was full, I'd do it. In a heartbeat. But I can't. I had to learn to let go of how I wanted things to work and learn to listen to the actual signs in the midst of all the other noise.
Sound like God a little?
Too often we have ideas of how we want God to speak or communicate to us. The problem is, it's not up to us. He does it His way. And until we recognize that we will never hear Him. We will miss His voice in the midst of all the other noise.
So what does God sound like? And will you start listening for Him?
My sheep recognize my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. ~ John 10:27 (TLB)
T
Monday, July 31, 2017
Support Those Who Support Us
So after having a little time off from the mission trip, here's the one thing that really stuck out to me...
This happens every year, and every year I am surprised. But this year I had a precursor to this experience on our trip. I was a part of a conversation with a couple of youth pastors, one of whom did Youthworks this summer and was very upset with their staff. After hearing their complaints I asked a something more. These students could do anything for the summer but they decide to work at a grueling job for nominal pay so our students can encounter Christ. Did you say "thank-you" or offer them any support?
And as always, the answer is no.
A week before our trip I was talking to Alize, our site director. She was giving me the information on the trip and like always she asked at the end if there was something they could be praying for in regards to our group. And I asked if there were any requests for us to be praying for them.
I was the first person to ask that all summer. We are the second to last group of the year.
During the week we occasionally stop for a treat after a hard day of working, ice cream or Starbucks, something like that. And I purposely bought a few extra for our staff so they could have something too.
I was the first person to do that all summer.
The sad part is so many of us see roles in our society as expected. Don't bother cleaning up the mess you made, that's why we have janitors, it's their job. Why say thank you and help out the Youthworks staff, we paid for this trip and they are working for us.
Really these people are supporting us, whether paid or not. When was the last time you went out of your way to thank someone or support someone who you see as it's their job to support you?
T
This happens every year, and every year I am surprised. But this year I had a precursor to this experience on our trip. I was a part of a conversation with a couple of youth pastors, one of whom did Youthworks this summer and was very upset with their staff. After hearing their complaints I asked a something more. These students could do anything for the summer but they decide to work at a grueling job for nominal pay so our students can encounter Christ. Did you say "thank-you" or offer them any support?
And as always, the answer is no.
A week before our trip I was talking to Alize, our site director. She was giving me the information on the trip and like always she asked at the end if there was something they could be praying for in regards to our group. And I asked if there were any requests for us to be praying for them.
I was the first person to ask that all summer. We are the second to last group of the year.
During the week we occasionally stop for a treat after a hard day of working, ice cream or Starbucks, something like that. And I purposely bought a few extra for our staff so they could have something too.
I was the first person to do that all summer.
The sad part is so many of us see roles in our society as expected. Don't bother cleaning up the mess you made, that's why we have janitors, it's their job. Why say thank you and help out the Youthworks staff, we paid for this trip and they are working for us.
Really these people are supporting us, whether paid or not. When was the last time you went out of your way to thank someone or support someone who you see as it's their job to support you?
T
Saturday, July 22, 2017
Atlanta - Day 6
We are on our way back home. Although I now think Nashville traffic is worse than Atlanta, we managed to have a little fun downtown.
But more importantly we were able to have a little bit of discussion about our trip. During the week we meet together in church groups, but being a group of 35 it's impossible to do that every night and have everyone be a part so we split up into smaller cells. Tonight is the first night we are all together again and can share stories. Our students talked for almost 2.5 hours about the trip, where they saw Jesus, and what they want to remember from this mission experience.
Thanks to Youthworks and all the great staff for a wonderful week, and here are a few stories from our students.
T
But more importantly we were able to have a little bit of discussion about our trip. During the week we meet together in church groups, but being a group of 35 it's impossible to do that every night and have everyone be a part so we split up into smaller cells. Tonight is the first night we are all together again and can share stories. Our students talked for almost 2.5 hours about the trip, where they saw Jesus, and what they want to remember from this mission experience.
Thanks to Youthworks and all the great staff for a wonderful week, and here are a few stories from our students.
T
This week has been nothing short of amazing. Serving the
community in so many different ways is always an amazing time. Personally, I
enjoyed going to AG Rhodes, a rehab center, and talking to the residences
there. There were 3 ladies I talked to for the majority of my time there, and
their amount of wisdom is astounding. They told about how life is such a
complex and fragile chain of events. One woman took off at a young age to go to
school and make groundbreaking leaps for all women. She came out of college and
got a job at a massive company, being 1 of 15 female employees there. One lady
described her faith to us and even prayed over us as we left that day. And
lastly, the third discussed all her hardship she had in her life, including
anxiety and depression. Seeing her that day however, she could not have been a
sweeter and kinder lady, and as we talked she made clear how much our presence there
means to her. To hear what you are doing means that much to them is quite
humbling. Walking into AG Rhodes day one, I did not know how comfortable I was
talking to these people I never met. However, at the end of the week, I could
not be happier to have spent time with the residences there. I enjoyed that
sight so much and I would not hesitate to do something like that again. I will miss
mission trips like these a lot. - Adam
No need to worry, all of your family and friends did a
wonderful job serving this year, and I’m going to miss all of them as I go off
to college. They made this trip a lot of fun even in tasks that otherwise would
not have been. This year I had the opportunity to work at places that involved
meal packing, so it was pretty much manual labor the entire week. While it may
be harder to see Jesus in that than with relational work, the sheer quantity of
meals we were able to pack obviously had a huge impact on the individuals who received
them. We were thanked by all of them we had the opportunity to meet personally,
which was very nice to be able to see. I am very content with my past six years
of being able to help at Youthworks, and I have been encouraged to continue
serving throughout the rest of my life. - Tyler
I’ll start by saying that the amount of influences and role
models in the graduation senior class is pretty much astounding. These people
have been accepting and friendly since day one. Having a solid base of friends,
especially in jr. high and high school where things change so easily. I will
tell you that this change will probably be the hardest. Their friendship makes
church and worship exponentially easier. On that note I would like to share my
thoughts on this mission trip:
My overall favorite part is getting the opportunity to serve
kids at the Nicolas House Camp which is a day camp for kids at the Nicolas
House homeless shelter and even kids who don’t live at the shelter. They were rowdy
like all little kids but also completely respectful to the authorities. On the
first day I was with them in the afternoon when the gym was closed and everyone
was packed in a classroom playing bored games there was this one lone kid in
the corner, his name was Trenton. I asked him what he would like to play and he
said Lego Batman. We did not have any action figures and most of the games were
used without many pieces left in them. We ended up using clear packing tape and
generic game pawns to reenact the complete story of Lego Batman. His giddy face
and bright attitude struck me as the perfect symbolism far the overall theme of
the week which was THE GOOD LIFE. I felt like that little kids bright face was
how god wanted me to feel with him and his message sent to us through Jesus. I realized
God wanted us to be happy with each other no matter the circumstance, He wants
us to trust Him, He wants us to serve. Back to what I was saying in the beginning
of this story when I reflected upon the influence of our great senior class, the
good life is much easier to obtain with a solid support base. Thank you Lord
for this truly great blessing. - Jacob
Friday, July 21, 2017
Atlanta - Day 5
It's Thursday! That means two things for our mission trip. It means a lot of good-byes as we have our last day of serving. Good-bye to those we are helping, the kids we are working with, the sites we have worked on. It also means that we will have a time of prayer together as we reflect on our service this week. In this we wash the students' feet and pray for them, then allow them to pray for each other. It's incredibly moving and they love to pray with each other (it took us about 2 1/2 hours).
Thanks to all of you who have been praying for us, tomorrow we are up early, we clean and pack, then we head to our pit-stop for the night were we relax a little and all share stories and decompress from the weekend. So, hopefully we will have a blog tomorrow but we'll see what happens. Either way, here are some stories from today, enjoy!
T
Thanks to all of you who have been praying for us, tomorrow we are up early, we clean and pack, then we head to our pit-stop for the night were we relax a little and all share stories and decompress from the weekend. So, hopefully we will have a blog tomorrow but we'll see what happens. Either way, here are some stories from today, enjoy!
T
Today I spent the morning working at an Atlanta Food Bank,
and I thoroughly enjoyed it. It was nice to see all the things people had
donated, and to see so many people working together to pack the food or other
items to get them distributed. Packing boxes was actually calming, even though
it was fast paced and in the midst of organized chaos. It was also satisfying
to see all the boxes we had packed. At one point the table behind us was so
full we couldn’t put anymore boxes on it and had to put them on the floor. At
the end we were told we packed about 10,900 lbs. The sense of accomplishment
and feeling like we made a difference was nice, and pretty much sums up how I feel
about this whole trip. -Sabrina
Today we did a lot of things, we
went to Atlanta Food Bank in the morning and I packaged food; then in the
afternoon we went to Books for Africa for the second time and we sorted books
so they can be shipped off to Africa. Afterwards we returned back to home base
and did meal prep for dinner. Youthworks tradition dictates that you do a cook
out for the community at some point during the week and for us that was today.
Meal prep involved moving boxes and serving the community in a more literal
sense. I was able to meet a lot of people while giving them a burger or hotdog.
After the cookout we returned back for Large Group Gathering (Nightly Church)
where one of the Youthworks staff shared a very personal and touching story
before we moved into Church Group Time which has its tradition on Thursday. On Thursday
we learn about the foot washing at Passover and then kinda replicate it where
the Youthworks staff wash our adult leaders’ feet and then they wash ours and
pray for us. After that we are able to pray with other students and chillax.
Praying with others is a very moving experience and every students cries at
least a little during the process and it brings us all closer together. Thursday
is my favorite day of Youthworks trips for that reason. – Carson
My mission trip until today was
incredibly bland and uneventful. The worksites were easy and incredibly low
interaction wise. Then today, my group was able to move on to work at Books for
Africa because we finished the tasks which were required of us by the Salvation
Army. Books for Africa was where I was
able to work in an actually challenging environment where the work made me feel
as if I am making a difference as I could see the fruits of my labor. The joy
this brought me was great and made all the doubt that I was making a difference
flood away. Feeling this sense of accomplishment allowed for me to look back on
my week and realize all my other accomplishments this week. -Rachel
Thursday, July 20, 2017
Atlanta - Day 4
It's the middle of the week and by complete fluke all the people writing the blog posts today were all at the same nursing home. But as you'll see, each had different experiences and saw Jesus in different ways. Enjoy!
T
T
Today I spent my day at the A.G. Rhodes old folks home. This
was our second day there and within the first 15 minutes of arriving I got to
meet Donna. She’s like one of those little kids you see that wave to everyone
in sight. She’s just a social butterfly. So she was walking and said, “Hi, I don’t
believe we’ve met. I’m Donna. Wanna do a puzzle?” So we went down and did a
puzzle and chatted and she’s just the sweetest lady!
I was sitting with Morgan in the hallway with the Alzheimer’s
patients and a lady named Jackie got up out of her chair and started to go for
a stroll and the nurses were asking her to sit down… well she looked them in
eyes and then waved and continued to shuffle away. It made my morning :) – Lindsay
I spent our wonderful Wednesday at A.G. Rhodes assisted
living home! This week has been one of my first experiences working one on one
with the residents at a nursing home, and wow was I surprised. My idea of working
in a nursing home is being bingo and having to talk really loud and constantly
repeating yourself. While I definitely partook in all of those, it was so much
more than that.
Today I spent my time talking to three incredible women.
First, I talked to a woman named Bertha from the Alzheimer’s wing. This
experience was like none other. Her condition was like something I had never
dealt with before and took so much patience to hold a conversation with her.
But in between the about 15 times I had to introduce myself, I really got to
know her and understand what her life was like, from her years growing up to
her time in A.G. Rhodes. After talking to her I went upstairs to talk to a
woman named Maeomi. Maeomi has got to be the most amazing woman I have ever
talked to. One of our staff members, Nick, and then Adam and I were able to sit
down with this woman for a total of about two hours and we went from crying from laughing so hard to being near
tears from hearing about her incredible life and all of the advice she had for
us. Never in my life had I met someone so devoted to God and she was truly
inspiring to meet someone like her. At one point she prayed for us and it was
so meaningful to me and I know that her faith will continue to have a large
impact on my life. Finally, I talked to a woman named Cynthia who was diagnosed
with Parkinson’s disease and is at risk for developing Alzheimer’s. Despite the
struggles she has faced during life, she was still able to tell the story of
how she found God and knows that after her time in A.G. Rhodes, she will be at
home with him. She told us about the risks she took during her life, such as
the time when her husband of 23 years divorced her and so she started a whole
new life and eventually remarried and bought her own house. Her life was full
of risk that I could see had paid off and I truly learned so much from her.
Before leaving she gave me two pieces of advice that I hope to never forget:
keep it simple and stretch, stretch your mind and your body.
I learned so much about myself and others in this experience,
more than I could have ever expected. I am so grateful for this opportunity, but
now I get to have a whole new adventure tomorrow at a food bank and book
donation charity! 1 day of work left! –
Katie
Hello Indiana,
Along with the other two bloggers, I spent my day at the
A.G. Rhodes retirement home along with the rest of my crew. However, I had the unique privilege to be on
beauty shop duty. While it may sound a
tad strange for a beauty shop to be located in a retirement home, it was simply
a place where a permanent hairdresser would take the time to trim and shape
each residents hair. Luckily, they did
not task me with actually trimming, and instead I transported residents from
the differing floors down in their wheelchairs and would sit and wait for their
appointment times.
Typically, I would not feel comfortable talking with
strangers or striking up conversations.
However, today I felt called to step out of my comfort zone, which is
something this mission trip has fortunately pushed me to. I have been able to talk and converse with
some of the most interesting people. In
fact, Ms. Carr and I had a great time talking about everything from iguanas to
college, and I even got a few compliments on my “wonderful hair and teeth”. While we had only just met, I feel like I had
an impact on Ms. Carr’s day (however small it was) and she certainly had an
impact on me, showing me that even uncomfortable situations can lead to a lot of
fun and happiness.
Another resident, named
Marge Davis was very eager to talk with me.
Unlike Ms. Carr, Ms. Davis and I interacted over both days that my crew
visited A.G. Rhodes. Talking with Ms. Davis
was less of a conversation and more of a lecture, however that made it all the
more enjoyable. The excitement in her
voice was tangible and I could really tell that she was genuinely enjoying our
time together. Her stories and memories
were surprisingly detailed despite the fact that she was 86 years old, and my
few comments would spark a flurry of memories and stories that she could
recount. Marge not only shared her life
story with me but also, before we left, gifted me an exercise book, with images
and instructions on how to stay healthy along with a dietary log. The book will not only have a physical impact
but it also amazed me at how generous and kind people can be, despite the fact
that they are strangers. We had only
talked for two hours, yet she was so kind as to give me a gift.
Overall, this mission trip has been an incredible
experience. I am continually amazed at
how sweet and gentle the residents of Atlanta are, and am extremely thankful
for this opportunity. See you all soon. -
Jacob
Wednesday, July 19, 2017
Atlanta - Day 3
A new day of work, many people going to new places and meeting new people. But since our students wrote so much about it, I'll defer to them.
T
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(Brace yourselves)
Today, my crew went to Urban Recipe, which is a food co-op. Essentially,
it is like a food pantry except it is very member driven. The people in the
community are members of the co-op and are responsible for pitching in and
helping out in any way they can. While we were there, it pretty much ran like
our food pantry does. We unloaded the food, sorted some boxes, and then we
milled around not knowing what to do. Then things got exciting. All of a
sudden, the sorting process began. The best way I can describe this is in the concept
of organized chaos. There was a system in place to be the most efficient. The
only problem was that we did not know what that system was!!! The very first
thing the coordinator said to the rest of the community members was to be
patient with us and to be gentle with us because, and I quote, “They do not
know what they are doing.” In the end we got all of the food boxed up and was
ready to be delivered.
Then, the co-op meeting began. For the first part we
were sorting cardboard, but then we caught the last part of the meeting. This
is where I saw God work the most. There was a discussion about getting rid of
the scripture reading at all of the meetings that was brought up by another
member. The very last person to speak was a teenage girl who was probably
around 13. When she stood up, everyone in the room listened and she just shared
about how important the church was to her and how it truly allowed her to feel
happy and how to live the good life. Hearing her speak so passionately really
spoke to me because she had so much conviction about her faith and truly
trusted in the word of God and how it would get her through everything.
Perhaps
the most touching part for me was while I was helping these two women load
their car. We were just talking about life and laughing and sharing stories and
I had finished loading. They tried to give me a tip for helping them but I only
receive payments in hugs so I ended with 2 hugs.(Which is much better). But
just talking with them and seeing how grateful they were for our help and how
they were so inviting and patient was so great to see.
Urban Recipe really
showed what life should be about. Being in community. Helping each other.
Laughing with one another. And sharing a real love for God. - Zane
“Church is really my
passion, it’s my favorite thing to do and I just LOVE it!” Today, I was working
at a kid’s camp for a group called Nicholas House. They provide housing and rehabilitation
for homeless families, and they are one of the only homeless shelters in
Atlanta that keeps the entire family together rather than splitting the fathers
in one home and the women and children in another. As I was in this kid’s club,
I met a young boy named Brandon, whom the wonderful quote came directly from.
This boy was bubbly as all get out and was bouncing around from person to
person laughing and getting to know every single one of us. When I was finally
able to get a word in, I asked him what he liked to do and what he wanted to be
when he was older. He shared that he wanted to be a professional singer and
that was his absolute FAVORITE thing to do “in the whole wide world.” I asked
him to sing us a song and I was not prepared for what came next… the voice that
came out of this 11 year old boy was the most amazing thing I have ever heard.
His voice brought me to tears and I have never seen someone with so much
passion for anything. The gospel songs that he sang were so powerful and he
believed every single word he said. God spoke through that boy so powerfully
today and the spirit that he had within him was so moving. I later found out
that he has lived without his father his whole life and him and his mother live
in a homeless shelter, but all the while he had the most positive attitude I’ve
seen in such a small human. Humbling to say the least. I have been so blessed
in this life with my family and the privileges that I have been given.
Speaking
of blessings, WHAT A TIME I have had over these past 6 years with Youthworks
and Fishers UMC Fire and Water. I can’t imagine
what my life would have been like if these trips were not a part of my life. Junior
high and high school have brought struggles unlike any other but being a part
of something like this is something so special that makes it all a little bit
easier. I have been forever changed by the people I have met and the
experiences I have been challenged with. I could never replace the experiences that
I have been given, and for that I am forever thankful. As I’m writing my last
blog of my last mission trip in high school, I am sitting with such a beloved
group of a few seniors and my heart is overflowing and crying at the same time
because it’s all drawing to an end. As we sit and reminisce about our favorite
memories, I can only hope that these trips touch everyone and change them for
the better, just like it has for me. (But don’t worry, I’ll be back as a
Youthworks staff) J
- Lauren D.
For the sake of confidentiality I will not be putting real
names, they will be close but not exact. So today my crew and I went to this place
called Urban Recipe, Urban Recipe is basically a food pantry. What makes that
place special is the dignity it provides, instead of just giving people free
food, it makes them pay a small fee so they feel like they are not receiving
handouts. When the instructor told us
this, I felt happy; they made the people feel better about themselves and gave
them food. First, we packed food, we put food in boxes for the people to take,
then one of the Youthworks counselors, Bridget, and I packed lettuce in bags
for dispensing as we did that we talked to Vivian the lady in the kitchen and
to each other. After that I met a super nice woman named Grace. She packed cans
into bags and dispensed them we had a really nice conversation about her life,
mine, and our faith. I had a lot of fun talking to Grace and Vivian, but all
around us was organized chaos. People were going all different directions, with
different tasks and it was very hectic. The boxes were tightly packed together
so we had to maneuver around them, which was not the best positioning but it
was humbling to see everybody working so hard to help others.
When all the boxes
were packed (they were three boxes that were all overflowing) we took out all
of the used boxes into a truck. My crew and I made a conveyor belt and loaded a
truck full of boxes for recycling and I was at the end of the line. I talked to
a man, whom I didn’t know his name, and he told me that he was from Atlanta and
went to college in Kentucky. I mentioned our seniors and he was talking about
Purdue, he was also super kind and helpful. We went back inside and all of the
people were having a committee meeting and one of the issues was reading
scripture at their meetings. You can tell that ALL of the people in that room
were super devout and I was inspired to become more like them. You could ask
each and every person and they would praise God until they day they died and I really
felt inspired to become more like them. Even a teenage girl stood up and
proposed her idea for their issue and I was thinking that I wish I could do
that, I wish I could become more like her and for the rest of the day that was
my goal.
After the issue was resolved we helped people pack up their food and
put into their cars. I met a wonderful woman named Nancy, we talked for a good
fifteen minutes about everything. She told me never to get into the wrong crowd
and how to always love your parents(which I already do, very much). She also
told me the best thing I could’ve heard that day, “You can never fix all the
problems in the world, but you can try and solve ‘em”. I could hardly
understand her a lot of the time, but I picked up enough to have a decent
conversation. Then she had to leave and I helped pull her fold up cart and I’m
already a bad driver but when you put cracks and bumps in a narrow road it gets
worse… I made it through though and I was so sad when I left, she tried to pay
me but I denied and ended up with a hug(which was WAY better) instead. We said
goodbye, but I’ll never forget her, I had a fun day today that was filled with
laughter, kindness, and most of all faithfulness. – Lauren B.
Tuesday, July 18, 2017
Atlanta - Day 2
Today was the first day of really working hard. There have been a ton of pictures on social media, feel free to check out Facebook, Twitter or Instagram for pictures and stories throughout our time here.
Our students have been broken up into four crews and unlike years previous we will be doing many, many different acts of service. Every morning and afternoon are completely different projects in different areas and many we will not repeat (some groups will end up doing 6-7 acts of service this week). We were in urban gardens, food distribution centers, senior centers, sorting books for Africa, the list goes on for our day.
In the evening our students also participated in a poverty simulation, each student was given an identity and had to find a way to get food through social services, food banks, etc. Only two managed to get a complete day's food. It reiterated to our students just how much their service is appreciated and how much the Come To Me Food Pantry does for our community.
Here are some stories from today, please be praying for our students as they continue to serve this week. Thanks for your support!
T
Our students have been broken up into four crews and unlike years previous we will be doing many, many different acts of service. Every morning and afternoon are completely different projects in different areas and many we will not repeat (some groups will end up doing 6-7 acts of service this week). We were in urban gardens, food distribution centers, senior centers, sorting books for Africa, the list goes on for our day.
In the evening our students also participated in a poverty simulation, each student was given an identity and had to find a way to get food through social services, food banks, etc. Only two managed to get a complete day's food. It reiterated to our students just how much their service is appreciated and how much the Come To Me Food Pantry does for our community.
Here are some stories from today, please be praying for our students as they continue to serve this week. Thanks for your support!
T
So today I got to do the one thing I haven’t for all 6 past
mission trips: visiting a nursing home. While I was a little afraid and uncomfortable
at first, I got my feet wet when I met a woman named Dorothy who was very happy
to be able to talk to someone.
The second lady I met was deaf so I had to shout
for her to hear me. Our conversation was short, and when I asked what she used
to do for a living, she replied that she didn’t want to talk about it and
rolled herself slowly back into her room and that was the end of that.
The
third woman I met I spent a majority of the day with. I wheeled her up and down
the same hallway to keep her from remembering that she was tired and wanted to
lie down because she wasn’t actually allowed into her room. She gave me nonstop
compliments about how nice I was, how
nice my teeth were, and what had happened to my arm. Eventually she fell asleep
in her chair and then I think she kind of forgot about us.
Finally the last
person I met had Parkinson’s but loved to talk and talk about how curious she
was about her father who had fought in WWII. I told her about my grandpa who
also fought and was battling his own debilitative disease. She had many
pictures of her father and postcards he had sent from Europe and she said quite
a few times how she wished someone in her family would be as curious as she was
about her family history. I would’ve loved to have continued to talk to her but
we had to leave.
While I entered the facility uncomfortable and happy that this
would be the only day at A.G. Rhodes, I left wishing that we could go back, so
thank you Troy for putting me well out of my comfort zone. - Matt
Rule #1: Okra is Deceptive.
While working at the UrbanAtlanta Metro Farm, our team
learned a multitude of lessons from Mr. K, the overseer of the farm, ranging
from wise proverbs to seemingly absurd tips to harvesting okra. What stood out most though (aside from his
knowledge on every vegetable known to man) was his genuine enthusiasm for his
work. During our orientation, we learned
that the farm rents plots of soil to local members in the community and
distributes their produce to farmers markets in Atlanta where food deserts are
just as abundant. Even though the work
tedious and tiring, Mr. K was more than willing to help us find new projects
and let us try a little bit of everything the farm had to offer (which was a
lot).
By the end of the day, our team
had the chance to plant sweet potatoes, harvest okra, and even weed the inside
of a greenhouse. Mr. K still gave us
each task with the same smile on his face and was more than willing to work
alongside us. While he may not be the
exact replica of Jesus, he did teach me how to take pride in your work and to
be passionate about a goal bigger than yourself. Hopefully, our work and the work others do on
the garden continues to help families in Atlanta and that the newcomers also
learn the proper way to find and cut okra. - Evan
Rule #2: No really, okra is extremely deceptive.
Today my crew had the opportunity to work at the Urban
Atlanta Farm. The most intriguing aspect of the farm is that it is almost 100%
self-sustained. It was an amazing feeling, looking at the solar panels that
provide the energy for the green houses, which in turn transfer energy from the
sun to the plants to grow food for harvesting, and finally seeing the leftover
plant used for compost to support new growth on the farm. Standing on the farm,
I could see a completely sustainable circle of growth. This really stuck out to
me as applying to our theme this week, “The Good Life”. In our lives, God gives
us everything we need to live a completely sustainable life, and is constantly providing
us with the energy that we need to do his work on the earth.
Looking back at my
6 years as a part of Fire and Water, I can clearly see that God was constantly
renewing my life through this ministry. I will forever be grateful for the
countless hours I spent at the church, or on a mission trip, hunting for
pinky-sized okra. It is hard to believe that this adventure is coming to a
close, but I am eternally grateful for the experiences and opportunities that
this ministry has provided for me. - Grace
P.S. Hi Mom.
Sunday, July 16, 2017
Atlanta - Day 1
We're here safe and sound in Atlanta. We've gotten to experience a bit of the city and it's traffic and we're happy to be at the Youthworks site.
Every night students will be writing stories of their day and letting you know a little bit about what has been going on in our lives, so enjoy!
T
Every night students will be writing stories of their day and letting you know a little bit about what has been going on in our lives, so enjoy!
T
Today when we left the church, I ended
up being in a van with people that I hadn’t ever really talked to very much, there were only a few people I knew well. I started out the day not really talking to
everyone and slowly we all began to tell stories and play games and I’m so
excited that I was able to make new friends on the drive here alone because it
helped the time fly by, but also got me excited for the new relationships that I
will get to experience the rest of the week.
Once
we arrived to the church, the first thing I heard when walking in the building
was Jesse McCartney’s "Beautiful Soul", which in my opinion is a masterpiece. After hearing Youthworks' beautiful song
choice I met some of the staff that is with us all week and right away they
were extremely welcoming to me and generally happy to be here. The Youthworks staff really made me remember why
I come on mission trips, and why I want to serve God and show others his love.
Also at the end of the day the Youthworks staff brought me out a cake for my
birthday and it was a great surprise. Thank you for all of your prayers for
safe travels and please continue to pray for all of us as we got out and serve
this week to show the city of Atlanta Gods love. - Kaili
Day one was a good one. We rode/slept in the car for six
hours until we arrived at our lunch destination, Sonic Drive-in, one of the
best establishments to ever be created. After
that we shuffled spots in our vehicles. I was sitting with some, shall we say,
interesting people. We played M.A.S.H. and Never Have I Ever, both are very fun
games. The best part of the ride though, was when we stopped for gas. Troy was
making everyone shuffle but we didn’t want to change seats so a large majority
was pretending to be asleep. People would say “Troy is coming!” and we would
all drop and pretend like Andy was coming and we were his toys.
We soon arrived at First Iconium Baptist Church.
It looked like a very nice place, which it is, but we had to walk up three
flights of stairs to reach were we were staying. Very fun, especially when you have
to carry up all your stuff. Our room was crowded to say the least but I was
able to move to one of the smaller rooms with less people. The staff immediately
welcomed us with open arms. We had a great dinner and played a lot of card
games after. We then had Large Group Gathering were we sang and shared things
about our day. So far things have been amazing and I cant wait to serve
Atlanta! - Luke
Today we had a very early start which was pretty rough. Therefore,
we got on the road fast and were able to make it to the Atlanta Youthworks site
around 5 o’clock. We did introductions with the very friendly staff (Nick,
Bridget, Ashley, and Alize), while the adult leaders got a run-down of the
upcoming events and what to expect throughout this week. We played a game where
we took off our shoes while one person stood in the middle. The person in the
middle said something about themselves (ex: “I have three dogs.”), and everyone
in the circle that had three dogs would have to move to a different spot/ empty
pair of shoes. This was a fun way to get to know some basic things about the
community we will be with for the rest of the week. During said game, multiple
people slipped while racing to an empty pair of shoes, so they wouldn’t be
trapped in the middle. This was very amusing, yet once this happened multiple times
we stopped. After this we learned the rules of the site (this basically
consisted of wear long shorts, no tank tops, don’t get mugged by staying with
groups of three, and get out of the building if there is a fire…duh). At evening
gathering we sang many songs to the piano stylings of the very talented Youthworks site coordinator, Alize. Once worship was over we watched a couple
videos and did devotionals. After evening gathering we proceeded to shove our
mouths full of cake to celebrate Kaili’s birth day (side note: Mrs. Witzig, if you’re
reading this, I think we celebrate you as well considering you did all the workJ). Finally we are
heading off to bed so we can get a good start on the week’s work tomorrow
morning! - Delaney
Monday, July 10, 2017
Actively Waiting
I've heard and been a part of a few conversations this week about waiting. Pastor Kevin even mentioned it in his sermon Sunday. It's one of the hardest things to do. Mostly because we don't know how...
My first reaction to hearing that is, "Of course I can wait. You just sit, and wait." But is that really true? True, that is one way to wait, and that's probably the reason for many people's frustration. But there are other ways to wait too.
Every once in a while my mother comes to visit. One way I can wait is to sit. When's mom going to get here? But we usually wait a little differently. "Waiting" was cleaning, straightening, getting extra groceries, doing all the things to prepare for her arrival.
Maybe one of the reasons we get frustrated with God is because we don't know how to wait. What if instead of just sitting "waiting" on God we decided to actively wait, pray, read our Bibles, serve, love others, do all the things that help us understand God better and in turn allow us to recognize Him when He shows up?
Imagine how different our churches, our society would be if we knew how to really wait on God...?
T
Monday, June 26, 2017
Changing God To Make Me Happy
I read this other day:
Much of our difficulty as seeing Christians stems from our unwillingness to take God as He is and adjust our lives accordingly. We insist upon trying to modify Him and to bring Him nearer to our own image. - A.W. Tozer's "The Pursuit of God"
This is honestly something that drives me crazy. If we really saw God as a real Person would we try to do this? Imagine marrying someone (which is an example often used of our relationship with God) and instead of learning who they are, instead constantly making them to be someone they are not in your head. How long would it be before the relationship breaks down? How quick would a therapist be able to pinpoint "you're not happy because you don't actually know your spouse, you only know who you want them to be and they aren't that"?
Yet when it comes to God I've heard many times who Jesus is "to me" or "my Jesus isn't like that". Well, He's not your Jesus. If He's a real person, He is who is no matter what you believe. So if you really want to be happy, learn who He is and work around that.
Changing who you think God is to fit your world will never work. Learn who Christ is and who you are to Him and move forward from there. That will bring true happiness.
T
Monday, June 19, 2017
"Do Unto Others..."
I heard a great story the other day. Someone I know was telling me about an experience they had when they were in a church youth group almost 40 years ago. The group had gone skating and this person ripped their pants. When the youth leader found out they took this person home to get a new pair of pants and got them back to the skating party, no one knew what happened and this person got to enjoy the party.
The real part of that story that hit me was their description after. This was something I remember from church. This is something that made me feel special. This is something I will never forget.
When Jesus walked the earth, this is how He did real ministry. Taking time to talk alone with a woman at a well. Playing with children when others see them as a bother. Sitting and simply having a meal with someone. Jesus took time to do these seemingly little things that made so much of a difference we remember them two thousand years later. And they are the things that still make a difference in our lives today when someone does them for us.
Maybe it's time to update the Golden Rule. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Maybe instead of it meaning "be nice" we need to take it up a notch. What would make you feel special? What would make you feel loved? What would make you actually see and feel Jesus in someone else?
Imagine what our world, our church, our families would look like if we lived out that Golden Rule...
T
The real part of that story that hit me was their description after. This was something I remember from church. This is something that made me feel special. This is something I will never forget.
When Jesus walked the earth, this is how He did real ministry. Taking time to talk alone with a woman at a well. Playing with children when others see them as a bother. Sitting and simply having a meal with someone. Jesus took time to do these seemingly little things that made so much of a difference we remember them two thousand years later. And they are the things that still make a difference in our lives today when someone does them for us.
Maybe it's time to update the Golden Rule. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Maybe instead of it meaning "be nice" we need to take it up a notch. What would make you feel special? What would make you feel loved? What would make you actually see and feel Jesus in someone else?
Imagine what our world, our church, our families would look like if we lived out that Golden Rule...
T
Monday, June 12, 2017
The VBS Experience
We are in full VBS mode in our church this week. And although that's fantastic one of the reasons I love VBS is we go all out decorating.

Yes, decorating. It's not something I usually get excited about, but I do here. Why? Because at our church VBS is a full blast to the senses experience. It's not just sit and hear about Jesus, it's do, see, hear, be fully immersed in who Jesus is.
And I think the real reason I love it is because we seem to fade that out of our lives as we get older. Learning about Jesus becomes just that, sit back and listen. Where Jesus is at a physical well holding water we talk about this. When Jesus grabs a handful of grapes to demonstrate our connectedness to Him we read about it. Who Jesus feeds bread to we listen, nod our heads, and enjoy.
Maybe the reason Jesus is more real to children than adults has nothing to do with their maturity of faith but more so how we show Jesus in our lives...
T

Yes, decorating. It's not something I usually get excited about, but I do here. Why? Because at our church VBS is a full blast to the senses experience. It's not just sit and hear about Jesus, it's do, see, hear, be fully immersed in who Jesus is.
And I think the real reason I love it is because we seem to fade that out of our lives as we get older. Learning about Jesus becomes just that, sit back and listen. Where Jesus is at a physical well holding water we talk about this. When Jesus grabs a handful of grapes to demonstrate our connectedness to Him we read about it. Who Jesus feeds bread to we listen, nod our heads, and enjoy.
Maybe the reason Jesus is more real to children than adults has nothing to do with their maturity of faith but more so how we show Jesus in our lives...
T
Monday, June 05, 2017
Maybe President Trump Saying "No" to Paris Was A Good Thing...
Hear me out, please...
I'm not saying we shouldn't be doing all we can to ensure the survival of our planet. I'm the guy who started paper recycling in my school system at ten years old. I 100% think America should have been in the Paris Accord.
But something interesting happened when President Trump said "no". People I have never seen care about the environment are suddenly interested and vowing to change their lifestyle. Businesses decide to follow the new standards even if the government won't enforce them. Donations in the millions are being made to cover what America would have pledged to the global cause.
None of this would have happened if President Trump said "yes".
If he has said "yes" things would have gone on as normal, few people would have cared, and many would try to get out of following these new regulations. Now, the country is fighting for it. By saying "no" it forced the rest of us to say "yes" and step up and take accountability for it.
Maybe this is part of the reason God allows bad things to happen or even flat out says "no" to us at times. If He just said "yes" would we live as if it were important? I read a book the other day where the author made the point if Jesus didn't leave for heaven, would we be even more apathetic than we are now, just expecting Jesus to take care of it all? Instead of being Jesus for people we would step back and simply point them to Jesus and have remove ourselves there?
Sometimes others saying "no" is a good thing, it forces us to live "yes".
T
I'm not saying we shouldn't be doing all we can to ensure the survival of our planet. I'm the guy who started paper recycling in my school system at ten years old. I 100% think America should have been in the Paris Accord.
But something interesting happened when President Trump said "no". People I have never seen care about the environment are suddenly interested and vowing to change their lifestyle. Businesses decide to follow the new standards even if the government won't enforce them. Donations in the millions are being made to cover what America would have pledged to the global cause.
None of this would have happened if President Trump said "yes".
If he has said "yes" things would have gone on as normal, few people would have cared, and many would try to get out of following these new regulations. Now, the country is fighting for it. By saying "no" it forced the rest of us to say "yes" and step up and take accountability for it.
Maybe this is part of the reason God allows bad things to happen or even flat out says "no" to us at times. If He just said "yes" would we live as if it were important? I read a book the other day where the author made the point if Jesus didn't leave for heaven, would we be even more apathetic than we are now, just expecting Jesus to take care of it all? Instead of being Jesus for people we would step back and simply point them to Jesus and have remove ourselves there?
Sometimes others saying "no" is a good thing, it forces us to live "yes".
T
Monday, May 22, 2017
Are We Too Polite?
The other day I was driving and came to an intersection. There are two stop signs here and the other road is allowed to go straight through without stopping. We've all seen these many times.
But here's where it got interesting. Someone who had the right of way and no stop sign felt like being polite and stopping so the person with a stop sign could go. The person with the stop sign didn't know what to do. So they paused. This caused the car behind the nice driver to take the initiative and go when no one else would, which caused the driver who paused to jut out then pause again and the nice person to sit completely still because now they had cars passing them. And I'm in the back of the log jam waiting to go.
Sometime we mistake nice for right. The "nice" thing to do is always the "right" thing to do, isn't it? "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you", that's the goal, right?
Maybe there are times when being polite is wrong, or even when the right thing seems impolite. The right thing in this situation was for the driver without a stop sign to keep going. Nothing bad would have happened if they had just done what they were supposed to do. How many times do we get these things confused? What's "nice" and what's "right"?
Jesus wasn't very nice. It goes against what most people think of Him (in a study a few years ago almost 75% of teenagers interviewed described Jesus as "nice") but He really wasn't. Jesus was more concerned with someone's growth, their soul, the real right and wrong in a situation than being nice. He would throw tables, take people into life threatening situations, even call one of His best friends "satan".
Maybe sometimes we should worry less about being nice, especially at the expense of doing what is actually right...
T
But here's where it got interesting. Someone who had the right of way and no stop sign felt like being polite and stopping so the person with a stop sign could go. The person with the stop sign didn't know what to do. So they paused. This caused the car behind the nice driver to take the initiative and go when no one else would, which caused the driver who paused to jut out then pause again and the nice person to sit completely still because now they had cars passing them. And I'm in the back of the log jam waiting to go.
Sometime we mistake nice for right. The "nice" thing to do is always the "right" thing to do, isn't it? "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you", that's the goal, right?
Maybe there are times when being polite is wrong, or even when the right thing seems impolite. The right thing in this situation was for the driver without a stop sign to keep going. Nothing bad would have happened if they had just done what they were supposed to do. How many times do we get these things confused? What's "nice" and what's "right"?
Jesus wasn't very nice. It goes against what most people think of Him (in a study a few years ago almost 75% of teenagers interviewed described Jesus as "nice") but He really wasn't. Jesus was more concerned with someone's growth, their soul, the real right and wrong in a situation than being nice. He would throw tables, take people into life threatening situations, even call one of His best friends "satan".
Maybe sometimes we should worry less about being nice, especially at the expense of doing what is actually right...
T
Monday, May 15, 2017
What Difference Will This Make In _________?
The other day I was reading about a strategy some people employ so they don't fight with their significant other. It's really simple, before starting to argue something ask yourself, "Will this matter a year from now?" Usually the answer is no so they don't fight. Smart idea.
Liz and I were having a discussion earlier. We were talking about some of the things the church has argued about in the past century, many of which seem so stupid now. They could be big or small, but do we still have a problem with things like mixed race marriages or which side of the stage the piano is on?
Maybe this is a good question we should be asking ourselves before we get upset about things at church, will this matter in a year? Five years? Twenty years?
Maybe it would be better to stop looking at things we shouldn't do. What can we as a church and I as an individual to that will make a difference a year from now, five years from now, twenty years from now...?
T
Liz and I were having a discussion earlier. We were talking about some of the things the church has argued about in the past century, many of which seem so stupid now. They could be big or small, but do we still have a problem with things like mixed race marriages or which side of the stage the piano is on?
Maybe this is a good question we should be asking ourselves before we get upset about things at church, will this matter in a year? Five years? Twenty years?
Maybe it would be better to stop looking at things we shouldn't do. What can we as a church and I as an individual to that will make a difference a year from now, five years from now, twenty years from now...?
T
Monday, May 01, 2017
The Desperation of Absence
It's a phenomenon we're all familiar with but probably don't think much about. I lived through it (and to some extent still am) this weekend. There was an internet outage in our neighborhood Friday that blew up our router. Because of this we didn't have phone or internet until Saturday afternoon. Then on Saturday morning I dropped my iPhone and it became unresponsive. Suddenly, I was at home with a toddler with no TV, no internet, and no contact with the outside world.
It's at points like these we hit our desperation. I didn't think about my internet until it disappeared, now I'm desperate to get it fixed. Our daughter has a million things to do in the house that don't involve internet or TV, but when those disappear now you get a little antsy and decide it's time to come up with a plan.
I was reading this phrase a few weeks ago in the light of Jesus' departure. While Jesus was here we/the disciples didn't need to do much. Jesus had it handled. They didn't need to preach, pray for healing, even get dinner in some cases. Jesus took care of it. But when Jesus leaves now there's a desperation of absence. Who is going to preach? Who is going to pray? Who is going to tell the world about a God who loves them?
In many ways we need to be living a little more in the desperation of absence. We need to stop thinking someone else will do it, someone else will love them, someone else will be Jesus to "them".
What if it's our turn?
T
It's at points like these we hit our desperation. I didn't think about my internet until it disappeared, now I'm desperate to get it fixed. Our daughter has a million things to do in the house that don't involve internet or TV, but when those disappear now you get a little antsy and decide it's time to come up with a plan.
I was reading this phrase a few weeks ago in the light of Jesus' departure. While Jesus was here we/the disciples didn't need to do much. Jesus had it handled. They didn't need to preach, pray for healing, even get dinner in some cases. Jesus took care of it. But when Jesus leaves now there's a desperation of absence. Who is going to preach? Who is going to pray? Who is going to tell the world about a God who loves them?
In many ways we need to be living a little more in the desperation of absence. We need to stop thinking someone else will do it, someone else will love them, someone else will be Jesus to "them".
What if it's our turn?
T
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