Monday, November 24, 2014
Thanksgiving
No real message today, just after a week of rest I hope all my American friends can do the same over the next few days. Safe travels!
Monday, November 17, 2014
Fresh Eyes
Have you ever done something or heard something so many times that you're almost immune to the message?
This past year I've been challenged by this in two ways. First my soon to be one-year-old. Everything she sees is for the first time. How is she seeing it? What does she think? Does she like it/hate it?
The other is the story of Jesus. In II Timothy 2:8 Paul reminds Timothy to remember Christ risen from the dead. Why on earth would Paul need to remind a young man who has grown up knowing Jesus and is now the pastor of a church of such a basic concept, the crux of the story, of his faith? Because we forget. even this season that's coming, Christmas, do we just glance through the story or do we see it with fresh eyes and all the craziness and miraculousness that ensues inside our culture's number one holiday?
And soon, those two start to converge. How will I tell the story of Jesus to my daughter for the first time...
Here's a challenge, look at the Christmas story with fresh eyes. You may be astounded with what you missed (or just accepted as truth without thinking about it).
T
This past year I've been challenged by this in two ways. First my soon to be one-year-old. Everything she sees is for the first time. How is she seeing it? What does she think? Does she like it/hate it?
The other is the story of Jesus. In II Timothy 2:8 Paul reminds Timothy to remember Christ risen from the dead. Why on earth would Paul need to remind a young man who has grown up knowing Jesus and is now the pastor of a church of such a basic concept, the crux of the story, of his faith? Because we forget. even this season that's coming, Christmas, do we just glance through the story or do we see it with fresh eyes and all the craziness and miraculousness that ensues inside our culture's number one holiday?
And soon, those two start to converge. How will I tell the story of Jesus to my daughter for the first time...
Here's a challenge, look at the Christmas story with fresh eyes. You may be astounded with what you missed (or just accepted as truth without thinking about it).
T
Monday, November 10, 2014
Convenient Jesus
This past weekend at our annual Real World Retreat we focused on one thing. Music. Kinda.
We took a look at how music has changed in the last 15 years. Not the style of music, but the quality. The music we listen to now has been changed so much to make files smaller that the music is actually distorted and compressed with piece of musical information missing. And there's only one reason why the general population has put up with it. It's more convenient.
The music industry (and other industries have followed suit) have learned that people will sacrifice almost anything for convenience. Make it smaller, lighter, crappier, whatever you need to do to make it more convenient for me. If I really wanted to hear better music I would need to find a stereo system and get some actual physical recordings, but that's really hard to jog with. So instead I'll listen to 2 hours of music, the files shrunk down to fit on my iPod through the horrible little earbuds I got for free with my phone. The quality of the music is horrible, but it's convenient for me to listen to wherever I am, right?
So, the question we led this to was this: How do we shrink down the symphony of Jesus to make Him more convenient for our lives? What are we trading out to have a convenient Jesus? I'll probably have a better quality relationship with Jesus if I take some time to spend alone with Him, reading His Word and talking with Him, but how convenient is that? What if I just listen to the podcast of a sermon while driving and call it a day?
The interesting part of this whole thing to me while researching this was seeing some of the interview of musicians and how they feel about this (I wasn't able to show it at the retreat, just a slight bit of bad language from musicians). It makes me wonder how Jesus feels about it, Him trying His best to have a relationship with the one He loves and getting a "when it's convenient for me" answer.
The real question is when it comes to knowing Jesus Christ, is it about quality or convenience?
T
We took a look at how music has changed in the last 15 years. Not the style of music, but the quality. The music we listen to now has been changed so much to make files smaller that the music is actually distorted and compressed with piece of musical information missing. And there's only one reason why the general population has put up with it. It's more convenient.
The music industry (and other industries have followed suit) have learned that people will sacrifice almost anything for convenience. Make it smaller, lighter, crappier, whatever you need to do to make it more convenient for me. If I really wanted to hear better music I would need to find a stereo system and get some actual physical recordings, but that's really hard to jog with. So instead I'll listen to 2 hours of music, the files shrunk down to fit on my iPod through the horrible little earbuds I got for free with my phone. The quality of the music is horrible, but it's convenient for me to listen to wherever I am, right?
So, the question we led this to was this: How do we shrink down the symphony of Jesus to make Him more convenient for our lives? What are we trading out to have a convenient Jesus? I'll probably have a better quality relationship with Jesus if I take some time to spend alone with Him, reading His Word and talking with Him, but how convenient is that? What if I just listen to the podcast of a sermon while driving and call it a day?
The interesting part of this whole thing to me while researching this was seeing some of the interview of musicians and how they feel about this (I wasn't able to show it at the retreat, just a slight bit of bad language from musicians). It makes me wonder how Jesus feels about it, Him trying His best to have a relationship with the one He loves and getting a "when it's convenient for me" answer.
The real question is when it comes to knowing Jesus Christ, is it about quality or convenience?
T
Monday, October 27, 2014
The Blame Game
I was reading a book the other day that with a very interesting statement...
I’ve always found it interesting that people ask why bad things happen to them, but they rarely ask why good things happen to them. - Altar Ego by Craig Groeschel
That's a pretty good question. Have you ever noticed how often we play the blame game with God but seldom the thank-you game? If something bad happens, "God, why me?"
What if instead of blaming God for bad things we started thanking Him for good things? What do you think our outlook on life would be then?
Be thankful in all circumstances. This is what God wants from you in your life in union with Christ Jesus. ~ I Thessalonians 5:18 (GNB)
T
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
System Crash
Sorry this blog is a day late. Yesterday my system crashed.
I don't mean my computer. I mean me. I was done. I did incredibly little yesterday. I just couldn't do it. I doubt I could even form coherent sentences.
But I did have a thought yesterday. What if I lived in a place or society where that was not even possible? If I was in a village in Africa or a serf in the Middle Ages or even someone living day to day in America, I wouldn't have been able to just stop and rest. If my well of fresh water is a mile hike away, I don't get to just sit and have water enter my house through the magic pipes, I would have to walk tired or not. If I didn't have a fridge with food in it and a microwave or even have the ability to make a phone call and have food delivered to my house, the work necessary to catch and cook my food would have been astronomical to me yesterday. I even got to lie on a couch in an insulated house with the heat on rather than go out and collect firewood and make sure the fire was constantly burning to keep warm.
It's amazing the blessings that we not only take for granted, we count them as necessities or inalienable rights we deserve. Yesterday my system crashed for one reason, it was able to. And for that I am incredibly blessed.
T
I don't mean my computer. I mean me. I was done. I did incredibly little yesterday. I just couldn't do it. I doubt I could even form coherent sentences.
But I did have a thought yesterday. What if I lived in a place or society where that was not even possible? If I was in a village in Africa or a serf in the Middle Ages or even someone living day to day in America, I wouldn't have been able to just stop and rest. If my well of fresh water is a mile hike away, I don't get to just sit and have water enter my house through the magic pipes, I would have to walk tired or not. If I didn't have a fridge with food in it and a microwave or even have the ability to make a phone call and have food delivered to my house, the work necessary to catch and cook my food would have been astronomical to me yesterday. I even got to lie on a couch in an insulated house with the heat on rather than go out and collect firewood and make sure the fire was constantly burning to keep warm.
It's amazing the blessings that we not only take for granted, we count them as necessities or inalienable rights we deserve. Yesterday my system crashed for one reason, it was able to. And for that I am incredibly blessed.
T
Monday, October 13, 2014
Is It "Us" Or "Them"?
If you want to know how much you really care about someone or how connected you are in your world, ask yourself when something happens if it happens to "us" or to "them".
Who is hurting right now, "us" or "them"?
Who had a bad day at school/work, "we did" or "they did"?
Who contracted the ebola virus, "us" or "them"?
Who succeeded on the project, "we did" or "I did"?
Whose church is this, "ours" or "mine"? (or Jesus'?)
When it happens to you, does it also happen to "them" or "us"? What it happens to us, does it also happen to you?
T
Who is hurting right now, "us" or "them"?
Who had a bad day at school/work, "we did" or "they did"?
Who contracted the ebola virus, "us" or "them"?
Who succeeded on the project, "we did" or "I did"?
Whose church is this, "ours" or "mine"? (or Jesus'?)
When it happens to you, does it also happen to "them" or "us"? What it happens to us, does it also happen to you?
T
Monday, September 29, 2014
Can It Be Done?
About fifteen years ago I remember having a conversation with someone who thought they were an expert on computers (you know what I mean, people that are sure of what they're talking about but the facts are a little off). I was told by this person that our current situation of computing, our RAM speed, had maxed out. That scientists and computer developers had hit a wall, it was impossible to get more than 512k of RAM in a machine.
A few years later I was talking with someone else, this person actually knew a little about computers, and we were talking about processors. He was explaining how our processors were now working as fast as possible, that electrons were actually skipping off their pathways because we were trying to push things too fast.
Now, my phone in my pocket does more than that. We can now buy laptops with 16gig or RAM and quad core processors (some machines can go higher).
Why? Because when we reached an impassible problem, instead of being the group that said, "it can't be done" another group of people said, "let's solve this and push through".
Which one are you?
When it comes to knowing God better, are you in the "I'm too busy, I can't do it, there's too much to know, it's hard, I've done all I can" group, or will you push through?
T
A few years later I was talking with someone else, this person actually knew a little about computers, and we were talking about processors. He was explaining how our processors were now working as fast as possible, that electrons were actually skipping off their pathways because we were trying to push things too fast.
Now, my phone in my pocket does more than that. We can now buy laptops with 16gig or RAM and quad core processors (some machines can go higher).
Why? Because when we reached an impassible problem, instead of being the group that said, "it can't be done" another group of people said, "let's solve this and push through".
Which one are you?
When it comes to knowing God better, are you in the "I'm too busy, I can't do it, there's too much to know, it's hard, I've done all I can" group, or will you push through?
T
Monday, September 22, 2014
Real Dreams
Have you ever had a dream that was so real when you woke up you had to figure out if it really happened or not?
I have one. I don't know why or what caused it, but it involves traveling from a frozen tundra of way north Canada, driving and almost getting killed, all to make it to New Mexico to apply for a job I don't get. I can even see the building I'm trying to get to just off the expressway. For some reason this dream is so embedded in my head that it even affects other dreams, like last night. I had a dream and in it I remembered making that drive and how bad it was and not getting the job and it changed my whole night. Again, I woke up trying to differentiate what was real and what was not.
Here's the thing, in my dream last night, I was being held back by another dream, another unreal scenario. I was hitting a wall because of something that never actually happened. My question is, are you allowing things to hold you back, even ones that aren't real? Is there something that seems real, but isn't and it is challenging your day to day life?
T
I have one. I don't know why or what caused it, but it involves traveling from a frozen tundra of way north Canada, driving and almost getting killed, all to make it to New Mexico to apply for a job I don't get. I can even see the building I'm trying to get to just off the expressway. For some reason this dream is so embedded in my head that it even affects other dreams, like last night. I had a dream and in it I remembered making that drive and how bad it was and not getting the job and it changed my whole night. Again, I woke up trying to differentiate what was real and what was not.
Here's the thing, in my dream last night, I was being held back by another dream, another unreal scenario. I was hitting a wall because of something that never actually happened. My question is, are you allowing things to hold you back, even ones that aren't real? Is there something that seems real, but isn't and it is challenging your day to day life?
T
Monday, September 15, 2014
Focused Time
Last night at Drink Deep we talked about how we can worship God through choosing to spend time with Him. But it was more than just the amount of time, it was focused time.
We can spend an hour kinda praying, interrupted, distracted, daydreaming, etc. Or we can spend 15 minutes of actually praying, focused prayer. It is too easy to say we are doing something but not be focused and have our goals not met. Like this past weekend, we had our all-church retreat. It was great, but for me, it was not a retreat. I was running around, leading worship, speaking, etc. The first time Lorie and I took a walk the entire weekend was after it was all over and people had left. I was not retreating or resting in God. I may have been on a retreat, but I wasn't doing what it was meant to do. I had to find another time to rest.
Too often we find time, just not focused time. When was the last time you gave God time that was completely devoted and focused on Him?
T
We can spend an hour kinda praying, interrupted, distracted, daydreaming, etc. Or we can spend 15 minutes of actually praying, focused prayer. It is too easy to say we are doing something but not be focused and have our goals not met. Like this past weekend, we had our all-church retreat. It was great, but for me, it was not a retreat. I was running around, leading worship, speaking, etc. The first time Lorie and I took a walk the entire weekend was after it was all over and people had left. I was not retreating or resting in God. I may have been on a retreat, but I wasn't doing what it was meant to do. I had to find another time to rest.
Too often we find time, just not focused time. When was the last time you gave God time that was completely devoted and focused on Him?
T
Monday, September 08, 2014
Trust
I just had a minor epiphany.
Someone recommended an audio product to me a few minutes ago. As someone who likes sound and shiny new tech gadgets (we call those people "guys") I was intrigued and kind of want what they were talking about, even though they said very little about the piece of equipment. And then it donned on me...
This person has no audio training whatsoever.
I am trusting a person who doesn't know sound, I have no idea what kind of stereo equipment they have in their home, I don't even know what kind of music they really like. Yet, here I am wishing I had the money to buy a piece of equipment I've never even heard for myself.
Why? Trust.
If you truly trust a person, you listen to them and even believe them. Even when they have nothing to back it up or proof, you follow. Simply because they have built up that trust with you.
Here's the two big questions: Who do you trust? Who in your life could sell you magic beans if they wanted to because you trust them that inherently? And on the flip side, who trusts you that much? How much have you invested in being trusted and trustworthy?
It's more valuable than you may think...
T
Someone recommended an audio product to me a few minutes ago. As someone who likes sound and shiny new tech gadgets (we call those people "guys") I was intrigued and kind of want what they were talking about, even though they said very little about the piece of equipment. And then it donned on me...
This person has no audio training whatsoever.
I am trusting a person who doesn't know sound, I have no idea what kind of stereo equipment they have in their home, I don't even know what kind of music they really like. Yet, here I am wishing I had the money to buy a piece of equipment I've never even heard for myself.
Why? Trust.
If you truly trust a person, you listen to them and even believe them. Even when they have nothing to back it up or proof, you follow. Simply because they have built up that trust with you.
Here's the two big questions: Who do you trust? Who in your life could sell you magic beans if they wanted to because you trust them that inherently? And on the flip side, who trusts you that much? How much have you invested in being trusted and trustworthy?
It's more valuable than you may think...
T
Monday, September 01, 2014
Losing Assistance
Last week something broke. It happens, but this one is really frustrating. It was a tiny piece of plastic that broke and fell off of our lawn mower. Super glue won't put it back on, I've tried tying it with wire and broke that too (maybe I need thicker wire, I'll try that later), I have Macgyver'd that thing as much as I can.
It was the power assistance for the mower.
The good thing, the mower still works. But for the last three years I have been using it and not realizing how heavy that piece of equipment is (or how angled my yard is). I did not realize how much work the mower was doing for me.
I wonder how many things in our lives we are assisted with and we don't even know it. Are we thankful for it or do we not even care until we lose it?
The LORD Himself watches over you! The LORD stands beside you as your protective shade. ~ Psalm 121:5 (NLT)
T
It was the power assistance for the mower.
The good thing, the mower still works. But for the last three years I have been using it and not realizing how heavy that piece of equipment is (or how angled my yard is). I did not realize how much work the mower was doing for me.
I wonder how many things in our lives we are assisted with and we don't even know it. Are we thankful for it or do we not even care until we lose it?
The LORD Himself watches over you! The LORD stands beside you as your protective shade. ~ Psalm 121:5 (NLT)
T
Monday, August 25, 2014
"Then Jesus brought them to the Temple"
Have you noticed this line is not in the Bible?
When Jesus talked to people and shared God's love with them, it wasn't by inviting them to come to His place of worship. Instead, He went out to where they were and talked to them there, at dinners, at parties, at their homes, at wells, wherever they may be.
Should we be inviting people to worship with us or to FIRE & WATER or whatever it may be? Yes. But that's not where you start. You don't start by finding someone on the street and giving them a church flier. No, you start by entering their life, joining them where they are, loving them there and sharing Jesus with them there. Bring Jesus to them and allow them to meet Him where they are.
Jesus sought out people where they were,we should too.
Matthew 13:1-2 ~ Later that same day, Jesus left the house and went down to the shore, where an immense crowd soon gathered. He got into a boat and taught from it while the people listened on the beach. (LB)
T
When Jesus talked to people and shared God's love with them, it wasn't by inviting them to come to His place of worship. Instead, He went out to where they were and talked to them there, at dinners, at parties, at their homes, at wells, wherever they may be.
Should we be inviting people to worship with us or to FIRE & WATER or whatever it may be? Yes. But that's not where you start. You don't start by finding someone on the street and giving them a church flier. No, you start by entering their life, joining them where they are, loving them there and sharing Jesus with them there. Bring Jesus to them and allow them to meet Him where they are.
Jesus sought out people where they were,we should too.
Matthew 13:1-2 ~ Later that same day, Jesus left the house and went down to the shore, where an immense crowd soon gathered. He got into a boat and taught from it while the people listened on the beach. (LB)
T
Monday, August 18, 2014
Why Would A Loving God Ask Abraham To Sacrifice His Son?
This was a question that came up last night at FIRE & WATER. We were looking at the root of worship, the first time the word appears is when Abraham is telling his servants he is going to "worship" with Isaac, aka, sacrifice him. How could a loving God ask someone to do that?
Here's my question, do you think God would need Abraham to sacrifice his son to know how much he loved God? I wouldn't think so, God knows the heart of each person. So then who was the test really for?
Or put it another way, if I were to ask you do you love God enough to choose God over your only child, would you say "yes"? Would you actually believe that or would you think in the back of your head it's the proper church-y answer?
So then who was the test really for?
As much as it sucked, I bet Abraham learned a lot more about himself, more than God learned about him. It was a hard test (one that God never intended to go all the way, obviously by the end of the story), but I bet Abraham came out with a lot more confidence in himself and his faith in the Holy God who made all these promises to him.
And now Abraham (and us) know how fully Abraham was willing to worship God.
What would it take for you to really understand how much you love God and how far you are willing to go to worship Him?
T
Here's my question, do you think God would need Abraham to sacrifice his son to know how much he loved God? I wouldn't think so, God knows the heart of each person. So then who was the test really for?
Or put it another way, if I were to ask you do you love God enough to choose God over your only child, would you say "yes"? Would you actually believe that or would you think in the back of your head it's the proper church-y answer?
So then who was the test really for?
As much as it sucked, I bet Abraham learned a lot more about himself, more than God learned about him. It was a hard test (one that God never intended to go all the way, obviously by the end of the story), but I bet Abraham came out with a lot more confidence in himself and his faith in the Holy God who made all these promises to him.
And now Abraham (and us) know how fully Abraham was willing to worship God.
What would it take for you to really understand how much you love God and how far you are willing to go to worship Him?
T
Monday, July 28, 2014
Ignoring Signs
Just up the road from me (conveniently between our house and church) there is a bridge out. They will be working on it for the next few months. Really inconvenient to lots of people, but funny at the same time.
I love watching the people ignore the signs. There are two eight foot signs blocking the road that say "construction" and "local traffic only". And yet, people drive around the signs and continue on, only to turn around about 100 yards later. There is no way these drivers did not see the construction signs, it's impossible (they weaved through them to go on), so there's really only one logical explanation. They believe the sign does not apply to them.
There's construction ahead, but I don't believe that. They say the bridge is out, but really, I can make it. Maybe most traffic can't get through, but I can. Whatever the reasoning is, these drivers do not believe the signs apply to them and continue on only to discover, yes, the signs apply to them.
I wonder how many times we see signs from God, but feel they don't apply to me. Maybe it's ways to improve your soul or things to avoid, but they don't apply to me, I'll be fine. That's for everyone else. Maybe God is trying to tell you something, but that's a message for someone else, not for me. I wonder how many glaring eight foot orange and white signs God has placed in my way that I literally had to drive around to avoid and still thought "that doesn't apply to me".
What if on the drive of life (isn't life a highway), we started paying attention to the signs? Maybe even doing what they said? I bet there would be a lot less detours, u-turns and accidents...
T
I love watching the people ignore the signs. There are two eight foot signs blocking the road that say "construction" and "local traffic only". And yet, people drive around the signs and continue on, only to turn around about 100 yards later. There is no way these drivers did not see the construction signs, it's impossible (they weaved through them to go on), so there's really only one logical explanation. They believe the sign does not apply to them.
There's construction ahead, but I don't believe that. They say the bridge is out, but really, I can make it. Maybe most traffic can't get through, but I can. Whatever the reasoning is, these drivers do not believe the signs apply to them and continue on only to discover, yes, the signs apply to them.
I wonder how many times we see signs from God, but feel they don't apply to me. Maybe it's ways to improve your soul or things to avoid, but they don't apply to me, I'll be fine. That's for everyone else. Maybe God is trying to tell you something, but that's a message for someone else, not for me. I wonder how many glaring eight foot orange and white signs God has placed in my way that I literally had to drive around to avoid and still thought "that doesn't apply to me".
What if on the drive of life (isn't life a highway), we started paying attention to the signs? Maybe even doing what they said? I bet there would be a lot less detours, u-turns and accidents...
T
Tuesday, July 22, 2014
Toronto - Recap
We're home, it's been a few days, I've had a shower, a bed and a meal that was not described in the menu by a number. It's good to be home.
But this was a great trip. There's an easy way to tell. By how much I'm hated Monday.
Monday is the first day of mission sites. And for many people, this was an incredibly uncomfortable day. It was hard than expected. Many were not doing what they thought they wanted to. The people we hoped to form relationships did not open up right away, or opened up too much. Monday is the day I hear, "I don't like this. I don't want to be here."
You can't judge a trip by Monday. Thursday paints a clearer picture. The students that hated Monday, many sing a different tune. They are going to miss who they are working with. They don't want to go home. They want to keep serving. Some even admit it's still really hard, but they want to stay anyway. Students who thought they were enduring something grueling have come to realize they are actually doing something they were created to do, they simply needed to be pushed out of their comfort zone and have this experience thrust upon them.
Many students who were uncomfortable with the elderly, the handicapped, the poor, the destitute, by Thursday they call them friends and they want to continue serving them and having them in their lives. To fully understand this, I encourage you to be at FIRE & WATER Sunday August 10th at Fishers United Methodist Church (8:30, 9:45 & 11:00). You can hear the stories first-hand from students and adults who had their perceptions of people changed in only 4 days, 24 hours of serving.
I love seeing the 180 degree change in people from Monday to Thursday. It's amazing what God can work in someone's heart in less than a week...
T
But this was a great trip. There's an easy way to tell. By how much I'm hated Monday.
Monday is the first day of mission sites. And for many people, this was an incredibly uncomfortable day. It was hard than expected. Many were not doing what they thought they wanted to. The people we hoped to form relationships did not open up right away, or opened up too much. Monday is the day I hear, "I don't like this. I don't want to be here."
You can't judge a trip by Monday. Thursday paints a clearer picture. The students that hated Monday, many sing a different tune. They are going to miss who they are working with. They don't want to go home. They want to keep serving. Some even admit it's still really hard, but they want to stay anyway. Students who thought they were enduring something grueling have come to realize they are actually doing something they were created to do, they simply needed to be pushed out of their comfort zone and have this experience thrust upon them.
Many students who were uncomfortable with the elderly, the handicapped, the poor, the destitute, by Thursday they call them friends and they want to continue serving them and having them in their lives. To fully understand this, I encourage you to be at FIRE & WATER Sunday August 10th at Fishers United Methodist Church (8:30, 9:45 & 11:00). You can hear the stories first-hand from students and adults who had their perceptions of people changed in only 4 days, 24 hours of serving.
I love seeing the 180 degree change in people from Monday to Thursday. It's amazing what God can work in someone's heart in less than a week...
T
Friday, July 18, 2014
Toronto - Day 5 (Thursday)
Today is the finale of our trip (mission work wise). It was the last day
of our sites, our last evening activity, our last look at the Toronto
skyline, our last time of worship together. Tomorrow is cleaning and
packing. But for today, here are some stories from our students. Enjoy!
Today, being the last day was the most emotional day. We had
to say goodbye to the people we had made great relationships with, and got our
feet washed while being prayed over by a leader of our church. Before any of
the tears were shed during the foot washing though, my crew, the Maple Leafs,
paired up with a disabled adult and took a field trip to Legoland. My partner
was Lamore, and he didn’t seem all that disabled other than being just a little
bit spacey. We went on Merlin’s Apprentice, a flying Dumbo type ride similar to
Disney World. After lunch in the mall, he had been to afraid to do some of the
other attractions like a laser maze and a shooting from a cart game, but we
finally did the laser maze. He was still so afraid that the Legoland worker
actually had to step into the laser chamber with him and me in order for Lamore
to go through it. We never actually got around to doing the shooting game, as
the line was too long, and we didn’t have the time, but I know that he enjoyed
himself just as much as I did. When we got back to St. Jude’s, it was time to
say goodbye to everyone there. I said goodbye to a woman named Sonya, who had
actually obtained her disability after losing her husband, and so she didn’t
seem all that abnormal. In fact, she was really motherly to the other adults.
This whole St Jude’s experience was something brand new to
me. I have never worked with adults on a mission trip, so I was really afraid
of what it would bring, but every day got easier and easier and I felt more
comfortable each day we went, so I really know that God had put me in the right
place, and even though I was a little frustrated initially about Troy’s choice
to put me with mentally disabled adults, I am now very thankful for it because
it helped me grow a ton in my faith and how I can serve other people without
even talking to them much.
-Matt Nieland
For the first time this week I received the chance, or
orders, depending on how you look at it, anyway I received the chance to work
at a really nice homeless shelter where I made beds, all day. The food was
REALLY GOOD though, so it was all good. Anyway, when we got back from our
worksites we went to play at a park. Once back at the Salvation Army we are
staying at we began the foot washing lesson. Tears were shed… but they were the
happy kind. It was such a good experience to enjoy. I am so glad that I have
had this opportunity, honestly this has been one of the most fun weeks I have
ever had in my life. I’m sad to have to come home soon, but I know that there
is still adventure coming!
-Rachel Simmonds
It’s weird to think that this is my last blog post. I’ve
spent so much time going on trips and telling you about it in this blog, and
now I’m saying goodbye. So please forgive me if I ramble a bit. Here we go!
I had an extremely interesting worksite this week. So
interesting, in fact, that I can’t tell you what it was called (I signed a
nondisclosure contract). However I can tell you that it was a factory that
worked with mentally and physically disabled people, teaching them work skills
necessary to work in other locations, and also offering jobs to many who choose
to stay there. Now what we were doing was a little on the more monotonous side,
but important nonetheless. Day 1: We put stickers on bags. For four hours. Day
2: We put candle holders in boxes. For 4 hours. Day 3: I put labels on water
bottles and put candle holders in boxes on and off for four hours (such variety).
And day 4: Counted out 10 aluminum tray lids, then counted out five aluminum
tray lids after one of us made a mistake, then boxed candle holders. For about
three more hours. Now this may sound a little like child labor, but the
important part of what we did was interacting with the workers there.
Throughout the week I met a number of interesting people including a man who
fled from communist Poland in 1985 and moved to Greece for one year and then to
Canada and has since lived in Toronto with his wife and two kids, a woman who’s
niece plays the piano beautifully and has only been learning for two years, and
another man who has an absolutely amazing knowledge of world history.
These are the people that we write off. These are the people
that we often ignore, maybe say hi to, but never bother to listen to, because
we don’t think they have much to say. Or at least that’s what I thought. I
learned this week that everyone has a story. Everyone just wants to be able to
share their experiences and what they’ve learned on their journey through life,
and I should welcome that, no matter what the source. While at the site, it was
difficult to see the importance of what I was doing, stacking candle holders
and sticking them in a box, but looking back, I’m glad that I was assigned to
the sight. I needed it. And God always gives us what we need, even if we don’t
want it.
So I guess this is goodbye. It’s kind of weird to be
sentimental over such a small thing, but I’ve told some pretty crazy stories in
this blog, and it’s sad to see it all come to an end. Nevertheless, I’m sure
God has amazing things in store tomorrow and for many mission trips to come. So
I’ve got to pass it off. Pass of the telling of incredible mission trip stories
to a new group, and I hope that they have just as many crazy stories to tell as
I did.
So for the last time, Goodbye, and thank you for all of your
support.
-Alec Balasko
Thursday, July 17, 2014
Toronto - Day 4 (Wednesday)
I would like to start by thanking those of you who have been praying and supporting us, we really appreciate it. Especially on days like today. Wednesdays are usually hard. In some ways they are amazing because we're getting in a rhythm, we know the people we're serving a little better (and the people we're serving with), but it's also day 4 of less sleep and more work and the realization that tomorrow is our last chance to do whatever it is we hoped to accomplish here. Tomorrow is the end of a relationship we worked so hard to build in a way. So, a little extra prayer Thursday would be appreciated.
That being said, God is doing amazing things in the lives of our students here. And I don't want to be the one to explain that. Here are some stories from students themselves about their day and what they are doing for God. Enjoy.
That being said, God is doing amazing things in the lives of our students here. And I don't want to be the one to explain that. Here are some stories from students themselves about their day and what they are doing for God. Enjoy.
Today was our third day of going to the sites around Toronto. My group, after
a much needed stop at Tim Horton’s, went to a factory-type industry place that
teaches people with mental handicaps important job skills that will help them
in a real workplace environment. Due to many signed forms detailing how much I
will not talk about this place and the people that work there, I can’t go into
too much detail. Regardless, I met some very interesting people, learned a lot
about them, and I think I now have a better understanding of some of the issues
that people with mental handicaps deal with on a daily basis.
After dinner, we had our evening activity in Chinatown. My wishes were almost fulfilled when we went
to a souvenir shop that sells Rob Ford T-shirts. Much to my dismay, however,
the shop didn’t have it in my size. Oh well, that’s what the internet is for, I
guess.
Tomorrow is our last
full day here at Toronto,
and I look forward to spending my last day with some more of the people at the industries;
they’ve opened up to us quite a bit, I hope they do so again tomorrow.
-Mattheus Mitchel
This morning started out with stopping for the awesomeness
that is Tim Bits, which are basically donut holes. Then we went to our work
site, which is a long-term care facility for senior citizens. There we took
some of the residents outside to get some air and we blew some bubbles, and we
played cards with residents. Our evening activity was to go to China Town,
where we could buy things like Canada
t-shirts and Bubble Tea, which has tapioca pudding bubbles in it. This was
followed by club time, which was really fun because we did some singing, and
church group time, where we talked about our day. I am very sad that tomorrow
is our last day here. I have met and gotten to know some great people while here,
and it has been a great experience.
-Megan Otte
Since the middle of freshmen year, this youth group has
always been a place for me to escape the stresses of integrating into a high
school with no pre-established friendships. There are many people that I could
thank for helping me improve my esteem and confidence, but a simple blog post
would not give them the recognition they deserve.
In terms of my
experiences on this mission trip thus far, it is safe for me to say that we
have spent all three days (and tomorrow) at a factory that provides low
demanding jobs to the mentally handicapped. Most of these jobs include assembly
line style tasks that are simple and give workers the basic skills and
experience they need to succeed in the real world. We were required to fill out
a confidentiality agreement that prevents me from mentioning any names, the
name of the company, or the specific work that we have done. As each day
progresses, I start to realize that the menial tasks we help these people do
are not as important as the feeling of value and purpose that it gives to its
mentally handicapped workers.
There are countless stories and feelings I would love to add
to this post, but time limits me from putting them down. I am so thankful for
these opportunities and can’t wait to go into our last day at the Toronto mission site.
-Jacob Stebbe
Tuesday, July 15, 2014
Toronto - Day 3 (Tuesday)
Today is usually one of the most interesting days of the trip. In regards to worksites, it's no longer a new experience, it's not training and guessing names. Today we are able to jump in because we know what to expect and who we are working with. On the flip side, by the end of the day the mission trip is half done. The enthusiasm to jump in is quickly replaced with "my time is dwindling quickly." There are always lots of mixed emotions.
On top of that, tonight we did a walk through downtown Toronto with a tour guide from the Salvation Army who lived there as a homeless person. It's an interesting perspective and there is a lot of talk about gentrification (the idea of a community pouring a lot of money into an area to improve it while at the same time not solving the poverty, simply moving or hiding it). Lots of opinions, lots of discussion. But for now, I'll leave you with some stories from our students.
Thank you for your prayers and support, we covet them all!
T
On top of that, tonight we did a walk through downtown Toronto with a tour guide from the Salvation Army who lived there as a homeless person. It's an interesting perspective and there is a lot of talk about gentrification (the idea of a community pouring a lot of money into an area to improve it while at the same time not solving the poverty, simply moving or hiding it). Lots of opinions, lots of discussion. But for now, I'll leave you with some stories from our students.
Thank you for your prayers and support, we covet them all!
T
Today was my second day working at Booth Industries. There,
we get the opportunity to work with some really special people who suffer from
mental illnesses. I got to work with a man from India named Kiswar. He told me everything
about him. I could tell he liked to talk. After we were done at our work sites,
we went on a street walk with a man named Anthony. I learned a lot of lessons
from Anthony’s life experiences. He really exposed me to a new perspective on
life.
-Scott Kokjohn
I had a really life-affirming day. I have to say, I left on
the mission trip kind of expecting it to be like the others I’ve been on, you
know, all one of them, and I’m glad to say I was very wrong. I went to Booth
Industries today for the second time, which was similar to my first day. I got
to work with two guys named Leonardo and Cedric. They chatted with Jacob Stebbe
for a long time about sports, not my strong suit, but I jumped in when I could
and I’m glad I could be part of a better connection with them today. The really
great part of my day came when we went on a street walk with a former drug
addict named Anthony. He had a really radical message for us, a product of how
hard his life has been, but I really liked what he had to say. He told us about
how the struggles he went through get ignored by society a lot of the time,
which of course I totally agree with and I would love to do what I can to help
expose the problem of homelessness and drug addiction to people, but the most
important thing he helped show me is that when I do see something, I can’t just
be angry or upset that it’s bad, I have to take action or spread the word to
those who can do more. He was really inspiring and I really feel like a different,
better person after listening to what he said. Also, he quoted Nelson Mandela,
which automatically makes me super happy. I can’t wait to take what I’ve
learned today and use it on the rest of the trip and the rest of my life.
-Jacob Bennington
Today was an awesome day. When I arrived I did not know what
to expect. Troy
told us to hug one of the youth works people so I hugged a helper named Rachel.
She was very nice and hugged me right back. I am helping at a nursing home all
this week. The elders really love to sing. We sang take me out to the ball game
and firework by Katie Perry and many more songs. The elders love to be fashionable
so I painted many of the ladies nails hot pink. I met many people here in Toronto. Some of the
people we work with are from Boston and from
right here in Toronto.
One of the girls I’ve met was adapted from China like me and we even share the
love of music. With there help we fed the elders and played Bingo with some of
the residents. For the afternoon activity we went to the beach, the water was
very cold so we had a contest of who could stay in the water the longest. I won
of course. Today we went on a tour of the city with a former homeless drug
addict. He told us his life story and we got to sort of walk through this life.
The experience was life changing and made me think about how I could help in
the world. I hope the rest of our time turns out to be a fun and life changing
week.
-Emily Lavey
Monday, July 14, 2014
Toronto - Day 2 (Monday)
Our first real day, we all went to our sties and were introduced to our tasks for the week. But, let's hear from the people actually doing it.
Canada,
eh?
Lol Canada.
We’re in Canada.
So that’s cool, eh? Anyway, today my crew went to a great place called St. Judes
Academy of the Arts. Pretty cool, eh?
It’s pretty cool, because one of the career choices I have for myself is to
become a special education teacher. I really enjoyed interacting with the
clients there, eh? They all have such loving and caring personalities. You
could walk in and immediately be greeted with a hug. I’ve been asking God
lately to help me to start to see what I want to do with the rest of my life (I
know crazy, eh? I’m a sophomore…). I think God has put me in this position to
get a little taste of what this career could look like. Hopefully the rest of
the week will go well, eh? Crossing my fingers, eh?
Bye Friend,
-Grace Balasko, eh?
(According to Troy,
the expert on Canada,
“eh” means you’ve finished what you’re going to say)
Okay… so today my group went to a nursing home. I played
scrabble with an elderly man and he kept falling asleep but would wake up when
it was his turn. The first word he had said to me was BANANAS he had noticed
that that was a word he could put on the scrabble board. Than after the game he
went to bed because he was quite tired. So than 2 other people and I interview
some of the residents to hear their life stories and to also see if they would
answer in “yes” or “no”. One of the questions was “what do you not like?” and
the lady I was interviewing said that she didn’t like nasty people. After we
interviewed we went to lunch we ate for about an hour. Then we played bingo
with an old machine. After that we went up to the 2nd floor and had
a dance party with most of the elderly people that weren’t asleep or were able
to be out of their rooms. So far I really enjoy Canada, I hope the rest of the week
will be just as fun if not better.
Adios,
-Braedy Laymon
Today, I had the privilege of going to Ina Grafton Gage Home
where I found out that most people living in the home had dementia. Even though this proved to be a challenge in
communication, most seniors still attempted to have a conversation with us and
opened up. One person that intrigued me
the most was an old lady named Helen. At
one point, she even told me about her husband coming home every day and cooking
for their family after cooking as a chef for his job. These little conversations are just so
amazing because everyone can see God working in the middle and letting us be
able to listen to everybody’s story.
Over the course of the day I met with several other people who have come
from Barbados, Jamaica, and even England. Their stories also included them finding
their way from all over the world to the city of Toronto where I was able to hear from them
today.
Sincerely,
-Evan Hodes
Sunday, July 13, 2014
Toronto - Day 1 (Sunday)
We finally made it, we are here in the great white north. For those who are not familiar with the mission trip blogs, I will be doing very little of the writing. Each night three students will be sharing on what they have seen and experienced throughout the day and trip. But, since we've spent more time on the highway than here, the stories are a little varied today.
And for everyone's sake of mind, yes we blew a tire this morning. It was a back tire, of which each side of the bus has two back tires. If it wasn't for the noise people wouldn't have known we blew a tire at all. The technician noticed our valve stem was broken (meaning it was likely we were slowly leaking air until the tire couldn't sustain pressure), it's all fixed and we're here safe and sound.
Now for some other perspectives...
And for everyone's sake of mind, yes we blew a tire this morning. It was a back tire, of which each side of the bus has two back tires. If it wasn't for the noise people wouldn't have known we blew a tire at all. The technician noticed our valve stem was broken (meaning it was likely we were slowly leaking air until the tire couldn't sustain pressure), it's all fixed and we're here safe and sound.
Now for some other perspectives...
Today was quite the interesting day. First, two hours were
wasted fixing the buss tire, fun times. Later on, when the border came, we were
not interrogated and everything went pretty smooth. Space is crammed at the church
we are at but we will make the best of things and I feel that we all will have
a great time in Toronto
and change the lives of many people including ourselves. Happy birthday Scott!
-Adam Woodward
Greetings from the frozen frontier of the North American
continent, also known as Canada.
I write this at the conclusion of a long day that began at roughly four in the morning
and included, among other things, terrible renditions of the Frozen soundtrack,
a border crossing, and the exploration of an alternative route on the Canadian
highway system. It was also my first time leaving the country. The lack of
American flags is somewhat startling, but interactions with actual Canadians
have been limited so far so culture shock is not really a factor at this point.
Tomorrow we will be placed into groups and assigned service locations, which
will see the beginning of the main service portion of the mission trip.
Concluding sentence.
-Griffin Hobson
Preparing to leave the church this morning, with coffee in
hand, I was pumped for this trip, to say the least. The drive didn’t necessarily
go as planned… forgotten pillow, blown tire, wrong turns, and sweaty, hot
buses. Despite all the bumps in the road, we made it to Toronto safely. As this being my first time
leaving the country, everything as similar as it might have been, suddenly
seemed so foreign. We pulled into the church and the excitement took over. I
write this, ready for the week ahead and ready to change the lives of people I meet.
(Happy Birthday, Scott!)
-Lauren Detrich
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